Been there...dated that guy.
Finding true love after 40 is possible, and I am living proof!
Just a few years ago, I was quickly approaching my 40th birthday. I was single and absolutely sure that “all the good men were taken.”
I would date a lot for a few months before totally giving up hope and going into hiding again. Hiding being: staying home every night re-watching The Wedding Date with a big bowl of Talenti Double Dark Chocolate gelato.
And when that got old, I would go on another cycle of dates. And after every bad date, I would be on the phone to California with my best friend dramatically declaring that I was “destined to DIE ALONE!”
I was meeting guys but I was not meeting the RIGHT kinds of guys:
There was the sex addict, the unemployed sex addict (Yep, two totally different guys!), the narcissistic actor, the guy who was proud he could drink a 12-pack of Miller High Life on a Tuesday after work, and the Canadian DJ who was 11 years my junior.
See any red flags there?
So my rock bottom moment was when the above-mentioned Canadian DJ (after having "gone ghost" for a week) called to tell me that he had been sleeping with a fan girl he'd met on Facebook all week, but that she had gone back to Canada and that I was "really cool" and he wanted to keep dating me.
The great thing about rock bottom moments is that it's your chance to get up and say,
"Yeaaaah.... No, I don't think so."
I wanted to be in a meaningful relationship. I wanted a guy who would love me, challenge me, and make me a better person. I wanted to be married.
None of those guys had the capacity to be a part of the quality, long-term-relationship I was looking for.
I decided that I was absolutely NOT going to settle!
So I dove head-first in studying dating and relationships. I interviewed my friends who were in great relationships and marriages. I picked the brains of my single guy friends to find out how they think. I read all the dating books and blogs I could find. I studied The Desire Map and got in touch with my Core Desired Feelings. And I got back into feng shui and studied how my environment was shaping and supporting my life.
And I created a plan to meet "my man."
Just 6 months after putting my plan in place, I met him, THE ONE! We were married in the summer of 2014. And he's everything I was looking for: he loves me, challenges me, and makes me a better person.
Oh, and he's super-hot too. ;)
So I started using my plan to help my single friends and acquaintances find their true loves. And it worked for them too! Now I share it with ladies like you: all single ladies out there who have given up hope, who are afraid they will never find the one and fear they will "die alone."
I share this work because I had these same challenges, I made a plan, and I found my perfect guy. And I desperately want to help you STOP DATING JERKS and FIND EXACTLY WHAT YOU'RE LOOKING FOR!
Your imagined life and love are possible! And they're waiting for you!